If you aren’t a ‘dog person’, just quit reading right now.          

4-year-old Bailey entered my life after rescue by ARF (Animal Rescue Foundation – a very worthy cause) 6 months after her owner left her in a kennel but never returned. As with most doggie empathizers, I wanted her to have a fresh new start beginning with changing her name.  Kaley sounded pretty close to the original and seemed softer like her disposition.  I often wondered if she worried her new owner was too dumb to even get her name straight!

She came equipped with a plain red collar, a gentle soul, a playful spirit, and an obvious history of male-induced abuse.  I couldn’t wait to care for and help an animal from such an unfortunate background.  I knew lots of love and patience would be required to help her with her problems, but I wasn’t prepared for how much she  would do for me.

What I learned from Kaley:

Patience.  It’s OK to fall asleep waiting for something to happen.  As long as you’re near the door so you don’t miss out.

Enthusiasm is key.

Manners.  Don’t stare at people while they eat.  It makes them feel uncomfortable.  Also, staring at people doesn’t make them do what you want.

Never be afraid to show how you feel.  A wag is always welcome.  A well-placed growl can save a lot of grief.

Setting boundaries requires no explanation.  It just doesn’t.

There is wisdom in silence.  Who knew?

Never pass up an opportunity to pee.  OK, I already knew that one, but it’s a good reminder.

Worrying about the future just wastes energy.  Sleeping is a better choice.

Keep close to the ones you love, and protect them with your life.  That includes your pooch.

Ignore the frantic barking from the far side of the fence.  Their opinion is just not that important.

Yet for all of this, she demands only kindness and extra cheese. Whoops – gotta go…. time for TREATS and a walk!